My Happy Family

My Happy Family

Wednesday, January 06, 2010

is she having menopause??

im going to post about my "partner" for this post ! esp for U * stupid Bit**
a divorcee w a 20plus son. just to vent my anger, nothing else..

* she haven been talking to for a long time and i dunno why.. two girl left becos of her, i think i'm the only one who can stand her up to now.. she have a weird attitude & the first day i came, she already quarrelling with someone else & this girl also left. it was ok at first, she was still friendly & will help me with my learning process. she doesnt talk to anybody when i first came becos like most of them dun like her & she dun like them. she can even leave in a middle of a meeting or scold my superior & my superior cannot do anything to her!! why is that..?? she can work!  tt the reason i think.
but gradually, she start to talk with ppl again showing abit of friendliness except for sometime. her temper is real weird to work with in the first place..
as i started with generals acct, workload is more than those keys account. she feel bad and wanted to help me with some.
i said ok, but after a few days, she complaining that she cant finish her work & started to throw her temper at me.
so i say nvm, i can do it since u're busy. but her work is nv more compared to mine.
after few months of struggling on my own, my speed of billing increase, i received compliment from others tt i'm able to finish even thou my things are alot. but she came back once again, asking me to learn her acct so that we can split equally among ourselves. fine, but i need to learn and it may take awhile.
just 1 week of doing her stuffs, i let her check thru my billing to see whether i bill correctly anot. the next day, she throw temper again, cos i made some mistakes & ask me not to touch any of her accts anymore. this just last for another few months, she came back asking whether i want to learn anot. can i reject ?? no lar, later she scold me again. WTF.. nvm, this time round she gave me a file consisting of the summary of how to check the contract.. that is just the guideline. but she will need to check thru my billing again & i only do her stuff on sat when is her off day. just 2 weekend, she flare again!!! she said i'm giving her alot of trouble making her check thru my billing is wasting alot of her time. so what, of cos i say ok lar, dun touch ur things.
how can i learn if u dun want to teach me?? i learn by myself? but u dun even want to include me in the email, how m i supposed to know any changes made in the contract ? ?
SHE is A TOTAL BITCH ` can i classfied her as that, cos she quite old by now.. anw, she doesnt look that old cos she have been dying her hair black every now n then.

she pissed me off today again!!


my grp hav an agreement on the segregation of docs and agreed to let me n thong segregate on the afternoon.
since ytd I have more to do, siti offered to help me with the segregation. Then I said ok.
this morning, my partner shouted at me “ u today 3 o clock will segregate anot !!” I nod my head cos I just came back from the toilet.. i dun have the time to react with this.

then, I was like what the hell she talk to me like this.


and I found out that she is taking leave on few days when I’m also on leave.. she didn’t even inform me bout tt.. I just saw it on my TL’s calendar..


* Conclusion *
we suspect that she's having her menopause*
*Menopause is the time in a woman's life when the function of the ovaries ceases.
Most women reach menopause between the ages of 45 and 55.
Women in menopause often report a variety of thinking (cognitive) and/or emotional symptoms, including fatigue, memory problems, irritability, and rapid changes in mood.

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